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I’m going to say something that I wish someone had told me when my kids were little, Reader: The holidays can bring out the best of you two… and the absolute worst. And honestly? But it doesn’t have to build like that. What I learned the hard way is this: It can soften tension. That’s why Mike + I created Fewer Fights by Christmas Morning — a 45-minute support session designed to help couples slow down, breathe, and get ahead of the holiday stress. Normally it’s $147, but for Black Friday weekend, it’s $49. Here’s your link to book: What to expect in this call: We’ll talk through what’s been feeling heavy, identify the root pattern behind the stress, and build a simple plan you can start using this week. After the call, I’ll send you a short Holiday Quick Start Plan and a few tailored resources, so you know exactly what to do next and don't have a question about next steps for growth. If you want a holiday that feels like home — slow mornings, easier conversations, connection instead of tension — this is one of the best, most proactive steps you can take. And truly? It will far outweigh any toy or decoration when it comes to the impact on your family. We want more couples to feel steady and supported this season. And we would love for you two to be one of them. Book your 45-minute session for $49 before the sale ends: Rooting for you! -Chels + Mike |
I help expecting and new parents improve their communication skills, connection points, and confidence through relationship road mapping so they can enjoy the life they've built together.
A tip specifically for those of you who feel like you fall into the default parent all of the time and so a holiday gathering, even with family or friends you haven't seen in awhile, isn't quite as exciting because even though your partner might be refreshed by some grown up conversation, you never really let your guard down because you're on constant baby/little kid watch so your nervous system doesn't calm enough for you to realllly relax into the time with people you love. Anyways if...
Some of you coast through the holidays with laughter and lots of hell yeahs. Some of you come up against the frustration of gender norms, upbringings, and the extra tension of the holiday time and expectations. Most of you are probably somewhere in the middle. I was happy to see a ton of you grabbed the free Holiday Mental Load Breakthrough so that you could get all of the things out of your head and into a space where you and your partner can actually work with it instead of you "just doing...
There’s a moment almost every mom has sometime between mid-November and mid-December… You’re standing in the kitchen, half-wrapping a gift, half-answering a text from your mom about Christmas Eve, half-listening to the baby fuss in the monitor and your partner walks in and says: “Just tell me what you need me to do.” And you freeze. Because if you could tell them, you would’ve. But all the mental load—the gifts, the schedules, the nap windows, the family expectations, the travel logistics,...