Hey friend, Ever feel like every little conversation turns into a standoff after baby? And the harder you push, the further apart you get. It’s not that you don’t love each other. It’s that you have different processing styles.
Same goal: Calm. When you don’t recognize this, you end up fighting about how you fight instead of what you were actually trying to solve. (Sound familiar?) That’s why Mike and I recorded this week’s podcast episode: Why Parents Fight Differently. 💡 This episode is one you’ll want to listen to with your partner. It might just change the way you fight + the way you connect. 🎙️ Listen now Rooting for You P.S. If this one hits home, reply and tell me which processing style feels most like you—I’d LOVE to hear. |
I help expecting and new parents improve their communication skills, connection points, and confidence through relationship road mapping so they can enjoy the life they've built together.
Chelsea + Mike, Circa 2017: Me: "My brain won't let me sleep." Mike: "Just wait until tomorrow for that stuff."Me: "MUST BE NICE THAT YOUR BRAIN DOESN'T FEEL LIKE IT'S PUTTING OUT FIRES EVERY SINGLE SECOND"Mike: 😐 Did I email the daycare about that form? Do we have diapers in the next size up? When was the last time I rotated the baby’s clothes? Don’t forget to thaw the milk before tomorrow’s appointment… —the endless mental tabs that keep a household running but often fall on one parent...
Don't tell the rest of the email list, but the Central Ohio crew is my favorite. Truly, though, there's something about in-person community that you just can't get online. Seeing someone's body language, making eye contact, seeing and hearing their voice, maybe even a "are you a hugger because I feel like we're friends now." Parenting is hard. Parenting without a strong support of people in your life who get it feels impossible. That's why a branch of our mission at Postpartum Together is...
Hello lovely Central Ohio friends! A few quick reminders or nuggets of info for you! 1. Go put some sunshine on your face today. 2. Put your earbuds in for this new episode of the podcast that is surely going to unlock something in you (If you were at a Babies and Bumps event, you heard us talk a lot about this concept!) 3. Our next Mom Brew Crew is Saturday, September 20th at Land Grant. We will have a fun giveaway from The Educated Pelvis and a kids' activity run by Twinkle Toes Nanny...